Empty me…(a poem)

The struggle is real.

Do more.

Be more.

But wait.

Be still.


When life is full that’s when we need to give it up.

Give it all up.

Let the worries and the pressure and the performance fall through the aching holes of our heart,

the heaviness of brown paper package

promises released,

the frustrations of 


like sand through a sieve 


given up

to the One 

who gave Himself 

to fill us up




not as the world





Letting go…

So yeah, it’s Monday.
The world hangs

on our hearts.
is about letting


and embracing, both
at once,
and how else can we
do that except
with the Lord’s help?
Help to release
with grace
and to accept
with graciousness,
help to remember
that when seasons


and we feel
that He is enough.
He is always enough.
And He is good.
All the time.


Dear Reader, Have you ever wondered what an author’s life is like for her kids?


Dear Reader,

Perception often differs from reality.

Take the writing life, for instance.

If you’re tempted to think it’s a glamorous lifestyle, think not just pajamas, but the same pajamas, three days in a row, with maybe an occasional tooth brushing in there somewhere. 

My dogs stare at me all day long, wishing I’d take them for a walk.

My husband does a lot of the cooking, 1) because he’s an amazing cook and 2) because he realized you can’t feed teenagers solely waffles and Pop-Tarts.

But don’t take my word for it.

Just ask my kids.

(Note: I don’t post pictures, information, or the names of my kiddos online, so they’re identified by birth order: O = the oldest, M = middle, and Y = the youngest. They’re all teenagers and they’re every bit as astute and hilarious and convicting as their answers indicate.)

1) What’s the best thing about having a mom who writes books?

O: We get to read her books before anyone else.

M: She could be famous.

Y: I like to think that my mom has done something big in the world.

2) What’s the worst thing about having a mom who writes books?

O: She gets really stressed out and worried whenever one of her deadlines gets close. 

M: She doesn’t feed me at night. Just kidding. I’d say, probably the writing all the time, I guess.

Y: I don’t like her being on her computer all the time, even though I’m on my computer all the time.

3) Your mom writes about some pretty serious topics sometimes. How does that make you feel?

O: I think that she writes about topics that are either rarely discussed or topics that people try to avoid even though the topics she writes about are incredibly relevant and important and today’s world. 

M: That’s cool she’s passionate.

Y: That’s cool. And I become interested in the topics she’s writing about.

4) What sort of book do you wish your mom would write?

O: I think that the types of books she’s writing right now is perfect. I honestly can’t see her writing anything other than christian fiction.

M: Historical fiction, like The Jungle or The Great Gatsby.

Y: Historical fiction, an alternate version of reality in history, like instead of George Washington saying “no” to becoming a king, he says “yes” to being a king and it would show what America would be like.

5) What are some of your mom’s worst or weirdest writing habits?

O: Her weirdest writing habits would have to be the absurd amount of coffee she drinks whenever she’s writing. 


Y: Editing all of my school essays.

6) What’s the one thing you wish people who read your mom’s books would know about what it’s like to have her for a mom?

O: I want people to know that it’s hard to write a book and that sometimes a writer needs their space in order to come up with ideas. We’ve had to learn how to deal with that situation a few times and it has taught our family to be patient and caring whenever she’s trying to finish her writing. 

M: I dunno.

Y: It’s fun, but it’s boring.


Ahhh, out of the mouths of babes!

So you see, I don’t have it all together.

Not anywhere close.

And I clearly drink too much coffee. 

What do YOU want to know about the life of a writer?

Post or email me a question and I’d be glad to answer it on one of my future posts!


Dear Reader is a series I post on every week. If you’re a reader and have an idea or question you’d like me to write about, relating to books or writing or editing, etc., jot me a note and I’d be much obliged to take a stab at your request. Also, if you’d like to read all the Dear Reader posts, click here. If you like insider information into my books or writing life, be sure to sign up for my author newsletter by clicking here.